MR. RIGHT: What does it really Mean?

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Finding Mr. Right seems to be every lady’s dream.  However, the question is, is there really such thing as Mr. Right?  The answer greatly depends on how one sees it. Mr. Right is a result of a woman’s imagination as to the kind of man she wants to have and live with all throughout her life.  We seem to have qualifications and attributes as to the man we desire to be with.  Whatever these qualities are, what’s important is, we can get along well with the kind of man we chose and will choose.

There are millions and millions of men in this world that we would probably meet and know.  But, we have to accept the fact, that only a few of them can we consider as Mr. Right or Mr. Perfect.  It is very impossible for us, ladies, to meet all the men in this world.  We can be close only to those men whom we see often and whom we can have direct contact with.  Like for example, our officemates, friends, neighbors, club members and the like.  We must remember that finding Mr. Right does not really mean that the guy is perfect and has no negative attributes.  Mr. Right actually means the right kind of guy for a particular lady.  He can be an engineer, a doctor, a teacher, a mailman, a messenger, a driver, an architect, a lawyer or whatsoever.  He is also the kind of man that a certain woman longs for and dreams of to live until the end of time.

Finding Mr. Right is not as easy as we could imagine.  We have to consider many things and possibilities.  Ladies have to go to places where there are a lot of men. And where there is a great possibility of entertaining and meeting men.  We can watch sporting events; go to concerts or festivals; attend birthday, wedding, baptismal parties or any party.  Furthermore, we have to be open to friends of our friends. Who knows, our friend’s friend is the right guy for us. We also have to think of the kind of man we want to attract.  So that, by the time we see such man, we would not have a hard time realizing that we are attracted to that particular guy.

When we finally find our so called “Mr. Right”, we have to consider and pay close attention to his personal qualities, behavior and attributes.  Finding Mr. Right is not only limited to the outside appearance of the guy, but most importantly, on his attitude. We should know the guy by heart. We should know his personal background, his family background, his values and goals in life, his dreams and aspirations.  Getting to know well the guy is a very serious matter.  We do not want to fall in love with a guy, who can only give us problems and pains in the end.  Instead, we want to choose a guy whom we can enjoy being with, share the same goals and values in life, can be trusted, patient, has a good sense of humor, respectful, loving and all those qualities a woman dream of for a guy to possess.  We should not be blinded with love.  We should be wise in our decision and think of our future if we choose such a particular guy. We should always be open-minded and think of the pros and cons a guy could give us. Also, it is important for us to trust our instincts.  And the greatest of all is, to trust in the Lord always.  He is forever there for us and nothing is impossible with Him.  He never leaves us in the dark.  And He never desserts us.